Have a debate yesterday with my colleague. Its quite an interestng topic woh..
Topic : Should a couple plan before having kids
Isn't it funny.. we actually came up with this topic from just a simple question & ended debating & sharing.
Q : Should a couple be prepared with savings before having kids ?
A : Yes & NO
Yes - With savings, you'll have the gd / best things for yr kids cos they're your precious ones & nowadays everything costs. Even before / during pregnancy, after giving birth & childrens' upbringing needs money.
No - Not necessary, you can see that in the past even poor family can have alot of kids.. just 省吃减用.. plus your parents will lend a helping hand to you if you hv not enough $$ as they will not leave you to suffer with yr kids.. ( sounds bad right ? ) 所谓, 船到桥头自然直嘛...
Conclusion : None... cos both seems to be right lo.. OMG.. den whats the debate for? :P
