Saw news of marriage couples getting divorce recently.. It seems kind of common lately. Even some of my friends are in separations or are a divorcee.. Are womans now too workaholic ? or is it that Man now more 大男人? Nobody's perfect. Nowadays ppl set their targets too high & even when you choose a husband or wife..
Have you ever complain that your boyfriend / girlfriend / hby or wife no good this & that ? Will your forgive & forget after a bicker ? Theres a saying.. you need two hands to clap, to hold. Thats why you're married to each other. Did you take your vows during solemnization with eye contact or with blank mind only wish to finish it fast & accurate ? Wordings that hurt will be voice out unintentionally during bickering. Will you take the words in or let it passby your ears ? Tolerant , Forgiveness.. what else is needed ? Some seems to be know a bit, some unsure & some even choose not to know till now.
Came by an article, saw a tagline.. i think its a good one to share :
" 任何的不完美, 你越去注意, 就越不满意 " ....... so, its always good to forget ?.. or should i say choose not to know ? cos "不去注意, 就不会不满意咯" :D...